Thanks for the kind words. The New Lady Duo's are rarely "hot" as the guys think of "hot". These duos are discounted steeply from the $280 price with two experienced pratitioners, precisely for the reasons you list: the new lady will 'follow' the established person.
It is an 'intern' experience for the new person, to learn by watching and doing.
Love your honest words and YES I'm a child of the 70s' ....bush and all!
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